After The Work

There are many things in our lives we have little control over. World events, the choices of our adult children, even the color our neighbor may paint their house. The choices of others stem from themselves and all we can control is our choices. How will we react to bad news? What will we do after we fail?

“Hope springs eternal” is an old saying that reminds us that hope is a bottomless resource. We can rely upon hope to pull us through another day despite what may be happening. We may not want to even get out of bed, but that is OK. Have hope while you are under the covers and be kind to yourself as you heal.

What kind of hope are we referring to if it is eternal? It is linked with it’s siblings faith and love. The Love of God kindles life within us, prompting us to rise again. To interact with this Love we need Faith. Faith that the God of the universe loves us, loves me. There is a still, small voice within that wants the best for you and to not give up.

The life of Jesus Christ demonstrated this love in every page of the New Testament. His kindness and mercy he showed lowly beggars, the love and tenderness he demonstrated as he touched and healed the leper. Putting aside the question of miracles, just look at his action, his intent. He “dwelled” with others when they felt as though no one could dwell with them.

Hope also requires action. Hope alone is not a strategy, but a motivating force. We cannot hope the bus will pick us up if we do not walk to the bus stop. We must make our own choices that align with what we hope in. Concerned for the world? Be a peacemaker as Jesus was. Concerned for your family? Love them despite their choices. Don’t like the neighbor’s choice in paint? Complement their unique style and you might find yourself grow to appreciate them in new ways.

In the end, our hope must be tempered by reality, or “life on life’s terms”, as it were. Our hope is centered on the Universe’s plan for our lives, not our limited perceptions. What we hoped for in high school may be far from the best we can have for ourselves. Be patient as you recover, as we cannot imagine the good God may have for us if we respond to God’s love with faith. God is not something we can place in our own boxes, or we risk limiting the scope of our hope.